Men Don’t listen
By Wayne L. Misner
Climb inside of his head. Decode the secrets he holds within. Use these proven methods to finally understand how to get him to show his deep emotions. Perhaps then you can have the relationship you’ve always dreamed of. Finally, help for the male and female interested in improving or saving their relationship. If you’re filing for divorce, separated, looking for a mate, alone and trying to understand what went wrong, all is carefully covered. This trustworthy advice will end your tension and anxiety by improving your mental and physical well-being. The Author is very, very good with word pictures and uses them frequently throughout the book. Another technique is using little vignettes based on true stories to illustrate a point and extensive lists to get the readers ideas flowing.
REVIEW
“I was very impressed with Wayne’s analysis of men and their emotional suppression. Unfortunately in our society, men are taught not to express their feelings and, what’s even worse, to not to even know what they are. And so, when they are attempting to communicate with women or an important partner or a family member, it’s very hard to listen because they don’t have the language and don’t have the inner experience to match up with what women or children or adolescence are typically saying to them. I think his point and his analysis of that and some suggestions about how to overcome that were very, very important and extremely helpful.” ……. “One of the things that was so wonderful about your book, was that you had a lot of terrific lists about what’s fun, what’s playful, finding the child inside yourself. Going back to very basic pleasures that people can share and that can enhance a relationship.” Bonnie Markman, Ph.D. Psychologist, TV show, “People, Places & Things”
EXCERPT
A little girl asked her mother, “Why did you marry Daddy?” “So, you’re wondering, too,” said her mother.
Relationships take time, work, and most of all patience. It is on the job training, and beyond any rule of thumb. What works for some, does not work for others. To have whopping success, the secret is simply to stay in touch with the relationship; its strengths, weaknesses, power and magic. Most of the time our relationships fail because after coming together and establishing that relationship, we get married but then pursue other things and put them as our top priorities i.e., careers, children, friends, etc. To maintain the magic, we must remain in touch with the setting, always bringing in new pet names, new information, new subjects, and new or different ways of expressing our love. It is an art (and lots of work) to maintain a relationship, keep it whole, and fill it with growing beauty. This will create a love that will mature into a wonderland of trust and respect with new stimulation--never forgetting to bring to the table a big bowl of magical candy to enjoy.
Can your relationship be saved? I believe it can! Trust me! If you walk away the next relationship will be with the same head on a different body.
Publisher: iUniverse
Release Date: Revised 2003
Genre: Relationship Self Help
Length: 248 pages
Paperback ISBN: 9780595089550
